January 27, 2013
Sometimes you ramble.
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November 7, 2012
Sometimes you get to geek out.
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November 6, 2012
Sometimes you just watch the red and the blue.
Autumn
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November 5, 2012
Sometimes I get political... sort of.
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November 4, 2012
Sometimes you end up surrounded by zombies.
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November 3, 2012
Sometimes... Oh screw the sometimes. Insomnia is never needed or wanted.
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November 2, 2012
Sometimes networking is really needed.
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November 1, 2012
Sometimes you have to start over.
“The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps - we must step up the stairs.” -Vance Havner
Halloween-time seems like a fantastic time to resurrect this blog from the dead. It's long over due, and I think I've missed it. So here I am giving it another try.
Welcome back to those who use to read my ramblings. Hello to any of you just finding it. I'm clearly not the same person that I was when I was originally posting here. But, the things I said in this post http://autumns-flame.blogspot.com/2008/11/i-am-me.html still hold true.
You won't find much pagan talk here anymore. I still consider myself pagan, but I'm really questioning my beliefs at the moment. So, unless I have some sort of magical break through there, I won't be talking about my religion. The other site that I use to write for is dead as well. There will be no more mention of BeShameless. Also, no more blog memes or give-away posts. I've deleted most of those from the archive, and I won't be putting them back.
But, that's enough talk about what was and what isn't. Let's talk about what is and what I hope to be. You see, I'm edging my way toward 30 years old and I'm having a crisis. It's either a late quarter-life or a very early mid-life; either way, I'm having one. I've come to the stunning realization that I have no idea what I'm doing with my life. Nor, do I know what I want to do with it. I have several short term goals (which I'm sure I'll talk about soon), but not one long term goal. I can't see a big picture, and it's making me wackadoodle.
I guess, I'm hoping that writing again will help me. I'm not sure how or why; I just feel that it is something I need to do. I have to start climbing those metaphorical stairs from today's quote. In the meantime, I'm hoping I'll be able to entertain you along the way. Maybe you're going through the same thing and we can help each other.
I'll post here once a day (at least) for 30 days. This will be in addition to my NaNoWriMo writing and my vlogs. November is normally a month that kicks my ass... This time I've decided to kick it in the nonexistent face. I will be super productive and that will be my first step on those stairs.
Until next time, let's get this bitch started.
Autumn
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January 19, 2010
Somedays I pretend to be a writer...
"What things there are to write, if one could only write them! My mind is full of gleaming thought; gay moods and mysterious, moth-like meditations hover in my imagination, fanning their painted wings. But always the rarest, those streaked with azure and the deepest crimson, flutter away beyond my reach." -Logan Pearsall Smith
I want to write. I need to write. Obviously, I can write because that seems to be what I'm doing right now. What I mean is I want to write a story or poem; actually, I want to write anything that isn't me rambling on and on. I want to write something brilliant and provoking. Right now my brilliance is having a hard time shining brighter than a night-light.
Life hasn't gotten any better. The shit-storm that is my life just keeps dumping on me. Which is ok... I mean everyone goes through crappy times. It makes us stronger, better, and other bullshit things we tell ourselves to make it more bearable.
But, what really has made life more bearable for me in the past is writing. Ex dumps you? Write heartbreaking stories, exaggerate everything you feel. Pissed at someone? Kill them off in a story and make it bloody. Worried about someone? They can become the hero and their problems are fixed.
This time I'm staring at my word processor till my eyes want to bleed. I have plenty of story material. Morpheus, the nightmares, and the mean reds have given me plenty of fodder. I know what the story should feel like. I know where I want it to go. I just can't grab onto the words and take it there.
Until next time, frustration is the word of the day.
autumn
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December 3, 2009
I wonder if someone could sleep through a whole month...
“Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell.” ~Edna St Vincent Millay
Before I actually get into my original post I just wanted to let everyone know that my mother is no longer in remission. I just found out today so I'm really not sure what's going on yet. But I'll update you as we figure it out. Now on to my actual post.
November hates me. I mean really, really hates me. I'm not sure what I did to piss it off, but the last few years it sneaks up on me and kicks me in the teeth. True story... well minus the kicking me in the teeth part.
This year... The Guy dumped me. It came out of nowhere. To be perfectly honest, I'm not dealing so well. Or at least I'm not dealing as well as I normally do in a breakup situation. I mean it's only been a week and a half, so I'm probably not being fair to myself. But I feel like I've done nothing but work and cry. I'm not sleeping more than 3 hours a night, and I'm lucky if I'm getting that much sleep. I think a lot of the lack of sleeping is because he use to call me every night before we went to sleep and we would talk for at least two hours and take turns reading aloud to each other. Or because we were in the same bed... It's just one of the many habits that I got into and have to figure out how to break wanting that.
After the first couple days when I talked to anyone I started to act pissed off at the guy or just avoid the subject and pretend it never happened. But, I'm not. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to be pissed off or just over it already. I can't be pissed because he wasn't happy... I could be pissed that he dropped my things off in a box and had the sweater I knitted for him laying on top of all of it. Even that doesn't piss me off. It just hurts.
But I didn't write this entry to cry to complete strangers. I actually wrote this as a thanks to my friends. I really am lucky when it comes to my best friends. Bella, who understood that I needed to cancel our meeting. Then when we rescheduled let me talk the whole what happened out and swiftly moved into a distraction. Shameless, who listened to me make no sense while I was crying; who promised that it would eventually be ok. Ethan gave me space long enough to get my front up so that I could do more than sob into the phone. He reminded me that I was welcome to come visit him and Shameless so I could have a couple days away. Finally there is Crimson. Not diminishing what the others have done for me but she's been a godsend. On the night that I felt totally, completely alone and worthless she reminded me that I matter to people. That they are thankful I'm in their life one way or another. She hasn't pushed with questions nor does she try to change the subject when my brain does wind back around to him. She has left me at least one message a day or stayed up with me on messenger talking until 3am. She is helping keep the loneliness away. Well as much as someone 1500 miles away can.
So yea... It's not rainbows and moonbeams. I am so not awesome. This situation sucks. I miss Matthew so very much. He made me happy and I love him. I don't know what I'll do with out him around. But I'll eventually figure it out. It can't hurt forever... In the meantime, I have awesome friends who care about me. Friends that should know how much they matter to me.
Until next time...
autumn
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